I John 5:4
For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith.
If you are a believer, you are not exempt from the problems and trials of this world. You are promised help, though. The victory over every trial in your life, comes when you put your FAITH in God. As an overcomer, He alone can strengthen and equip you to rise above your circumstances. Stop doing things your way, call upon God and put your FAITH in Him!